Compromising is okay

A 'someone' is a person. This 'someone' also has a name. Do you ever stop and think, I mean really think what it means to another that you refer to them as a 'someone'? I personally, rather not address a person who is of significance to me as 'someone'. Society is filled with do's and don'ts's and that I too am guilty of getting caught up with it. Majority of the time it is not voluntarily, in fact a way that it is understood by others-unfortunately.
As a woman in my mid 40's, I am learning to adjust my visions that I had of myself and my future to that to society. No longer is a woman considered suitable for traditional standards as those of our parents. Instead, she must learn to be a part of or blend in with the rest of the 'less-traditional' views of society.
Does she want to lose her love? No.
Does she want to sacrifice her life? No.
Does she want to compromise and meet halfway? ABSOLUTELY YES!
The later is what is called REALITY. One can have both and I believe be very successful at it. Modern relationships have changed and I am the first to openly put my hand up to not really understanding why they have so. However, when one meets their 'missing someone' in their life why would you lose them by pushing them away because of an idea or fantasy that floats in ones head? I say, hold on to them and COMPROMISE. This way no one gets hurt and there can only be two happy people.