Going round in circles
How do you get through a situation that you know you really want to resolve? There really is no right or wrong answer here. This is all from my own learning. In the past I would separate certain aspects of the situation. How is it going to benefit the other person or myself if we both sit and talk through it? Most of the time,both parties do benefit as it is human nature to talk through incidents like mature adults. Only who out of the two will behave maturely? Will it be the one who wants it more or the one who has instigated the situation in the first place and has done nothing but run or kept in hiding to avoid confrontation? This truly is a hard one. I seem to be going round in circles here. No matter which way you choose, if two parties are not willing to discuss or act on it, it really will be worthless. Imagine starting up a car knowing that you need the keys to get it going and you realize when you have walked for 10 min that you don't have them on you. You need them right